Private dating that respects you

Why Choose MoreThanSize - Private Dating Sites Done Right

If you've tried mainstream apps and walked away feeling smaller - figuratively or literally - you're in the right place. MoreThanSize is built for daters who want a platform that actually works: verified members, optional photos, real privacy and a date-or-extend guarantee.

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What sets us apart

Six Reasons Members Stay With Us

Most dating sites promise privacy and verified profiles. We engineered both into the workflow - alongside four more differentiators that explain why our 6-month retention beats the niche-app industry average by 23 points.

Body-Positive Matching

Our matching engine reads chemistry signals - humor, values, lifestyle - not measurements. Size acceptance is the default setting on every profile, not a filter you have to find.

Verified Members

Every account passes mandatory email confirmation plus photo verification before sending a single message. Phone numbers are never required, so privacy stays intact.

AI Photo Moderation

Every uploaded image runs through automated screens for catfishing, stolen photos and policy violations within seconds - and a human moderator reviews every flag inside 24 hours.

Optional Photos & Privacy

Photos are optional. Your profile is excluded from Google search results. Approximate location only - never precise GPS. We have never been hacked and never sell user data.

LGBTQ+ Inclusive

Men, women, non-binary and transgender members across straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual and asexual orientations. Filter exactly who you want to date - your inbox stays relevant.

Affordable Tiers

Free to browse forever. Premium starts at $2.33 per month on the Guaranteed plan - and if you don't get a date in six months, we extend your membership free of charge.

Side by side

MoreThanSize Versus Mainstream Apps

The honest comparison most niche sites avoid. Here's how we stack up against the two most-downloaded mainstream dating apps on the features that actually decide whether a platform works for size-conscious daters.

MoreThanSize compared to Tinder and Bumble across ten privacy and dating features.
Feature Recommended MoreThanSize Tinder Bumble
Built for size-acceptance - -
Mandatory photo verification - ✓
Free to browse forever ✓ ✓
Excluded from Google search - -
Phone number not required - -
Date-or-extend guarantee - -
Premium under $5/month - -
LGBTQ+ inclusive search ✓ ✓
Has never sold user data - -
Delete account in two clicks - -

Sources: MoreThanSize platform features (May 2026), Tinder Help Center, Bumble Privacy Center.

Trust by the numbers

Verified Members By The Numbers

What does "verified" actually mean in practice? Here's a snapshot of our trust workflow as of May 2026 - refreshed monthly and audited internally each quarter.

100%
Email Verified
Mandatory at signup
94%
Photo Verified
Members with active photos
<24h
Report Response
Moderator SLA
0
Data Breaches Ever
Independent audit, 2026
Built for discretion

Discretion Features Built Into Every Page

Privacy isn't a checkbox in account settings - it's the default. Four protections run in the background from the moment you create a free profile.

No Google Indexing

Profiles, photos and personal details are blocked from search engine indexing. Your name will not appear in Google results tied to MoreThanSize.

Optional Photos

Browse, match and chat without uploading a single picture. When you're ready, share photos privately with the matches you trust.

Instant Account Deletion

Tap delete in your account settings and your profile, photos and chat history are removed immediately. No 30-day cool-down, no win-back emails.

Approximate Location Only

We track city-level location to show local matches - never precise GPS coordinates. Stalker-proof by design, not by promise.

What we never do: sell user data, share profiles with third-party advertisers, require a phone number, or let your billing descriptor reveal you joined a niche dating site. Read the full MoreThanSize trust policy if you want the long version.

Real members

Members Speak For Themselves

Three reviews from verified members who switched from mainstream apps in the last six months.

I tried four dating sites that promised privacy. MoreThanSize is the only one where my profile genuinely never showed up on Google. That alone was worth the membership.


Portrait of Elena
Elena 31 · Denver, CO · Verified member

The Guaranteed plan made the choice easy - six months for fourteen dollars and they extend free if I don't get a date. I had three by week eight.


Portrait of James
James 37 · Chicago, IL · Premium member

What sold me was the no-phone-number policy. As a trans woman that level of privacy is non-negotiable, and MoreThanSize was the first site that actually delivered it.


Portrait of Hana
Hana 28 · Portland, OR · Active member
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Before you sign up

Frequently Asked Questions Before You Sign Up

The questions our support team gets in the days before someone joins.

Is MoreThanSize one of the dating sites that actually work?

Yes. Our 6-month internal survey found 71% of paying members went on at least one in-person date and 38% started an exclusive relationship. We attribute the result to mandatory verification, body-positive matching defaults and a niche audience that already shares the most sensitive part of compatibility - making first messages calmer and more honest.

How private is MoreThanSize compared to other private dating sites?

Profiles are excluded from Google indexing, photos and personal info do not appear in search results, only approximate location is tracked, phone numbers are never required, billing descriptors are generic, and we have never been hacked or sold user data. Account deletion is instant - no cool-down period.

Do I need to verify my phone number to join?

No. Email verification is mandatory and photo verification is strongly recommended, but phone numbers are never required to sign up, message or upgrade. This is a deliberate privacy choice that distinguishes us from most mainstream and niche dating apps.

What does the date-or-extend guarantee actually cover?

On the 6-month Guaranteed plan ($14 billed once, $2.33 per month), if you do not secure at least one in-person date during your six months - and you used the platform actively per our fair-use guidelines - we extend your membership free of charge until you do. Full terms are linked from your account page.

Are there downsides I should know about?

Honestly, yes. Most messaging features require a paid VIP subscription, we do not yet offer iOS or Android apps (the site is a mobile-optimized web app), profile customization is intentionally minimal, and we do not support video chat. Our member base is also smaller than mainstream apps - a tradeoff for higher relevance per match.

How do I cancel if MoreThanSize isn't for me?

Open Account Settings, choose Cancel Membership, confirm. The cancellation takes effect at the end of the current billing period and you are never auto-renewed without notice. To erase your data entirely, choose Delete Account instead - everything disappears immediately.

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